Mother’s Day

Mother’s Day. An official day, along with a million new holidays that seem to come up every year to honor one thing, person or event; this should be one of the keepers. Because Mother’s Day is every day.

Being a mother is the most rewarding job ever. Hands down. It’s also damn hard. With no monetary compensation in most countries. And why is that? Because raising a person to be a caring and productive member of society is kind of important to the planet. It takes time and loving effort. Something you really shouldn’t screw up! And to see that baby, child, teenager, young adult and adult become that amazing person that you had the smallest part in raising? Truly is the greatest thing.

When I first found out I was pregnant I was not only in awe but honestly in a kind of panic. I wanted a baby but I knew nothing, NOTHING about raising one! Most of you are aware there is no manual? That two of the most important jobs in the world are Motherhood and World Leader? Nope, no manuals! Mothers give birth and in doing so, become “mothers”.

I remember when my first born was a few days old and just couldn’t seem to stop crying. My husband looked at me and said, “Why’s she crying?” “I don’t know”, I said. “But you’re her MOTHER!”, he said in disbelief.

We love you, our children. We raise you to the best of our ability. We screw up a couple of times and we are sorry. But we wouldn’t trade you for the world and that little acknowledgement from you once a year? It means we did a few things right. Without the book.

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Going to the Dogs

I see this a lot in blogs “It’s been awhile!”. Lots of reasons there. Life, Work. Soap. Soap.

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We have three dogs. Two are happy geriatric dogs and the third is a Chihuahua. Chihuahuas aren’t dogs. I’ll let you know when I figure out what category they are in as I don’t think they know (or care) either.

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I have been making soap for a few years now, trying different things and I realized that I have not made a soap for dogs. Why not? If you own a dog, you know there are all kinds of products out there for them. A whole range of shampoos. Lots of chemicals on the list of ingredients. Which I don’t like.

So I not only made a basic oatmeal soap, I also made a soap with rosemary essential oil for smelly dogs (not that THAT ever happens!).

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These have a simple olive oil base and palm and coconut oils. I have a recipe somewhere on this blog for people. I used the same here. And it works nicely.Because this time we tested it on animals. Ours. And they were fluffy.

So, where have I been? Making soap and promoting it with a contest on Twitter.

And our winner of the contest, with the most votes for cuteness and soapability? Teddy.






Marketing Soap

It’s hard to focus when it comes to soap because there are so many formulas, designs and trends out there it becomes hard to know what is right for you. Many people who love homemade soap love it because it is real to them, natural. So consider that and make soap for them. A lavender soap. An oatmeal soap. There are two that are basic and good.

After you make them, take a picture. And it should be a picture of your soap. You don’t need to decorate around your soap. Not if it looks good on it’s own. And if it doesn’t, don’t sell it! That is your reputation out there. You don’t need a fancy camera, your phone should work just fine. Two pieces of white paper work just fine, too.

I used two legal sizes, curved them around and set my soaps on them. No distraction, just soap. img_0533And some natural light. That’s it!

Your next step is tell people why you love your soap. And why they should, too. What are the basic ingredients? Why did you choose this combination? What makes your soap special?

One of the best places to get ideas for your soap is Etsy. Don’t steal anyone’s ideas, not fair! But you can see what makes a good picture, what descriptions speak to you. Then you can create your own. Have a friend who’s prose you admire take a look at what you have written. Fix it if need be.

And now that you have gotten a few ideas from me, keep moving forward. I believe in you!

Skin Soap

You would think that would be obvious, right? But I started making soap because I was curious about how it was done, veered off into all the beautiful ways it can be made and then, here I am.

Making claims about the medical properties of a soap is a no no for a soap maker. We can read up on what oils and herbs do but honestly, most of us have no medical training and to imply our soap will cure something is just wrong (in my opinion). Yet most of us know that commercial soaps have all kinds of extra things in it to extend shelf life that we don’t want in our soap and many of us have delved into the properties of herbs in a search for a good soap.

I made this soap for my daughter, Season. Season is beautiful inside and out. She has very fair skin and also has the occasional break-out issues that comes with delicate skin. A doctor recommended an acne medicine that made her so sick that over the holidays we ended up at an Urgent Care. There are many, many good doctors in this world and I do believe that there are good medications. I just am not a fan. Because I personally believe that we end up on so many medications as a result of side effects from other medications and I feel that taking something internally for a topical issue can result in well, sometimes a trip to Urgent Care. So, the doctor stopped the medication.

In the meantime, I did some of that research into herbs and “potions” and made this recipe from lovinsoap and all the credit goes to them. This is a charcoal soap with tea tree oil and is said to be great for acne prone skin.

On making this, I have to say that charcoal is an insidious thing. It is a fine powder, pitch black and one tiny dab of this stuff created black spots on more surfaces than I knew were possible! Add a little oil to it and I do believe it could be used as a mental weapon for all fastidious people. Oh, and this soap stinks. Which is the point, I guess. This has a very astringent smell and if the smell alone will clear up skin, this will work.charcoal-tea-tree-soap

Here the the recipe courtesy of lovinsoap.

The only thing I changed was to take approximately one cup of the trace before adding the charcoal and sitting it aside. I added 1/2 teaspoon of super pearly white mica from Because I just couldn’t totally give up the design aspect of soap making.

New Year, New Ideas

I have given up the day job. That is frightening and exhilarating and puts just a bit of pressure on me in where I am headed in this world. There are a million soap makers in this world, most are good, some are outstanding so where do I fall in that world?
For those who love and live for our soap, thank you! It has meant so much to me to think we are creating something you like to use and that you believe in. I plan to continue doing what I love doing and sharing that with you. I also plan to make our soaps even better for skin than ever. In that, I have a range planned from the well-loved brown rice soap, which is so gentle and soothing for skin to a few new soaps that I hope will give you what you love and need in skin care.
Coming up in February is a soap filled with pureed carrots. I have tried it (I always do) and for my aging skin it is a creamy, moisturizing bar.
We also have a cocoa butter soap for extra moisturizing over the cold months and I am planning on a tea tree charcoal soap for problem skin.
I will be sharing recipes that I love with you so come back soon! Thanks for stopping by.

Good things

I spent the beginning of summer filling orders for the shops that feature my soap and then I stepped back. For a long time. Because filling bulk orders sometimes feels  a bit machine like and I lose (my mind!) the reason I make soap and I lose the creativity when I am filling one type of order in bulk.

Making soap, for all of us who do it, is and should be fun and fulfilling.We should be happy making soap and proud of what we do and mostly I am. Very much. I love seeing techniques from other amazing soap makers and the open enthusiasm is a great thing to see among soap makers. I like taking a little time to think.

I followed the Instagram trip of Handmade in Florida.Her work is some of the most beautiful soap I have ever seen. There is so much more to the best soap and that is the artist’s heart behind soap making. The wish to make a good and beautiful product is art. Looking at the pictures of her travels through Europe, the amazing photography; I realized that she was also filling her soul and would come home recharged and ready to create.

That step back or sideways is a good thing. I spent my summer working in the vegetable garden, doing some weaving, taking some time to spend with friends, enjoying the butterflies, rabbits and turtles that spend time in my yard.

So no soap thoughts today but I do want to share the most wonderful and simple recipe from an abundant harvest of cherry tomatoes. The recipe is from Nigella Lawson and it is called Moonblush Tomatoes. I serve this with pasta and Parmesan and it is summer. Best of all, you can take these straight out of a cool oven, freeze the tray and drop the frozen tomatoes into freezer bags to enjoy all winter long. Enjoy!


Moonblush Tomatoes(photo credit Lis Parsons)


Soaping Mania!

AssortmentThis last weekend I was on a roll. Funny how that one works. I was sitting lazily on the couch on Saturday morning and out of nowhere I decided to make a batch of soap. Which led to two batches because the first one was so lovely and then a third because I couldn’t believe how nice the first two turned out. I just didn’t want to stop

bts2I have a go to recipe that tends to fit several of my molds just right. It is simple, too.

as always, I assume you have made cold-process soap before and have thoroughly read all safety information!

Classic Soap Recipe
6.9 oz. Lye
15.8 oz. distilled water
16 oz. palm oil
16 oz. coconut oil
16 oz. olive oil
4 tablespoons of fragrance oil
micas to suit whatever I am creating

It is almost like those cooking recipes that are one batch makes three different cookies! Soap making can feel that simple when you are ready to create. Since the basics are oils, liquids and lye the variation comes from the combination of oils, the choice of liquids and the fragrance and coloring. That’s when you can complicate things! And I have. But that is another story!

I also had some leftover beer. I know that sounds wrong but there you go! Flat beer. So instead of throwing that out, I made an entire loaf of soap to go with it! From this recipe by the SoapQueen. A happy variation as the beer was not stout (color difference).

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Let’s see what next Saturday brings!


Soap Avalanche

I do this all the time. I lose interest in soap making. Okay, not lose interest but get distracted. Did I tell you I have a weaving loom? That the vegetable garden is planted and looks great? That the “day” job has been a bit consuming? And did I mention the last couple of batches of soap did not have my full attention and they looked like it? But I am back. Because I am a terrier and have to solve the problem. Not easy to find with soap.

When a batch goes wrong there are many possible reasons from a new formulation of a fragrance oil you have used before to colorants to (not paying attention to) the recipe. I have it straight now, thank you.


This is the way By the Sea soap should look and it does. Light trace allows time for working with layers and avoids bubbles, clumps and a dry looking soap. Simplistic but true. A light trace, which is a blend of your oils and lye mixture, looks like a thin milkshake. Over blending is tempting but not good.


And I made lavender for the Etsy shop. This is an in the pot swirl with an S swirl at the top. Adding lavender at the top can create a problem if the buds get damp. Just like any natural flower they will (I hate to say “rot” when talking about soap!) leave a yellow residue. So add a little at the top and leave it uncovered. Spritzing the top of the soap with Isopropyl alcohol will help stop ash and then you can dust the top with the lavender buds.

Finally, I made a quick melt and pour soap. I have mixed feelings about melt and pour. I feel that someone else actually made the soap and I am just melting and reforming it. There are some really beautiful melt and pour soaps out there and I may look into a few more recipes. If you want to create this one it is from my favorite soap site:


and for more recipes, please go here!


I had this chair.IMG_0924

I bought a chair from Habitat for Humanity last November. We are a casual family and our dining room consists of a table and a group of four mismatched chairs (also from Habitat). I like the mix. It suits. But we were having a get together so I needed another chair. Simple.

After the holidays, I kept looking at that chair.

Those reading this know me because you ARE me. The ideas that float around in my head when I see some things. You have those. Ed has handled this over the years with a lipstick pink wall, a DIY popcorn ceiling removal, wall art and more. I promised that from now on I would limit my ideas to things that didn’t entirely destroy the house. Smile.

So there was the chair. And some old tee-shirts. Which I cut into strips.And started weaving.IMG_0927

There’s no tutorial. You may not have a chair like this or would even consider the idea. But you get the idea. And the reason behind it. And I like it. That’s enough.